Hello, Fellow Bloggers!!! And, of course, those who have happened to come across my blog while surfing the net! Allow me to introduce myself…. I am ,what I would like to call ,a “Blog Virgin,” being that I have never actually had my own blog before. I have always been the reader of blogs; not the actual owner of one.
I have always desired to have my own blog some day, but had never actually gotten around to creating one due to the distractions of life! Everyday, although a new day, is the same routine day in and day out. I have decided now that I need to do something to make my days more interesting. My blog will serve as an outlet from the daily mundane tasks of life. I have come to the conclusion that I need some more “me” time, and, well, a place to vent of course! I have personally found that I can’t vent to my coworkers because then … well.. that would get me into a lot of trouble. I can’t vent about my husband to my husband because ..well… you get my point.
Blogging was definitely the much more appealing choice of the two, and I wanted to avoid ruining my life at all costs! I am not exactly too sure about how this whole blogging situation works, however, I do hope that I do not actually find myself being too dissapointed by it. For instance, what if those who read my blog hate my posts? Or.. what if people find my blog to be, well, lets say, uninteresting? I know, I sound a little pessimistic about blogging, and I am sure you are thinking to your self…”Geez lady! it is just blogging! There are other things in life to worry about and to be negative about.”
Well, take a look at it from my perspective…..When you create a blog, you are putting yourself out there.. your thoughts, feelings, opinions… You make yourself vulnerable to others’ opinions, criticisms and thoughts about your posts. I am sure (and a majority of you bloggers will agree) that as you are blogging, you have that fear stored in the back of your mind—- worrying about what others are thinking about your posts. Questions running through your mind: Will they take this personal? disagree? tick them off? love it? hate it? blah.blah.blah.
So, my advice to you, fellow bloggers, is to: FEAR NOT! Do not fear that your readers will think poorly of your posts or that you might offend them, because, if you do, your blogs will not come genuinely from your heart…….
Be sure to…….
Avoid sugarcoating your posts…..
Blog your little heart out.
Blog as if your life depended on the post.
Blog about what makes you angry…. sad…happy…inspired..motivated!
Be sure to use a pseudonym for yourself and pseudonames for others in your posts to avoid getting jumped…lol
For, if you do not let your walls down, and truly blog without the fear of the unknown.. you have truly never blogged before.
I hope new bloggers will embark on this exciting journey with me as a blogging virgin!!!